PHYSICAL ABUSE – Leaves scars, a trail of proof that cannot be denied. VERBAL ABUSE – Can be heard not only by the abused but others as well; it can also be recorded with a phone, revealed in texts and/or emails – it too leaves a trail. EMOTIONAL ABUSE – is a silent killer. An […]

  While men have a reputation for putting more emphasis on the physical appearance of their significant others, and many have put up with abusive treatment longer than desired because of the beauty of their partner – there are also many OTHER REASONS why men stay in abusive relationships – and they have nothing to […]

WHEN MEN ARE VICTIMS OF NARCISSISTIC ABUSE While so much information and resources are available for women who have been victims of emotional abuse, whether from narcissistic men or any cluster b personality; men often find themselves suffering in silence. Most men do not report or seek help for abuse for a variety of reasons: […]

Is This Abuse? One of the reasons that many people stay in emotionally abusive relationships for so long is their inability to recognize they are, in fact, being abused. I say this from experience.  It’s not easy for me to look back on my 15 year marriage to a malignant, cerebral narcissist (in my opinion) […]

Often I am asked by mothers leaving narcissistic partners, if going back to live with Mom is a good idea even if she displays narcissistic tendencies. It’s very tempting to grasp hold of an outreached hand when you are in need, have little ones to care for and feel all alone as if the world […]

Every now and then I meet someone who tells me that they stayed with the narcissist because they thought that if they loved the narcissist enough, then maybe, possible, hopefully? they would change!! The sad part is that if you have ever given thought to such a thing, you  are thinking, doing and feeling EXACTLY […]