As a survivor of narcissistic abuse, I know first hand how frightening it is to go to court for custody and visitation against someone I feel has NPD. The fact that narcissists are expert manipulators that come alive, salivating at the chance to perform in a court room, while victims knees tremble barely able to have the strength to maintain themselves upright, motivates me to continually find resources that can empower victims of narcissistic abuse and help them protect their children.
To change around a Forrest Gump quote – Crazy is as crazy does. The sooner a male victim of narcissistic abuse comes to grips with the fact that his crazy soon to be ex wife is…well, crazy, does not want to change, will never play by the rules and sadly will live to poison the minds of their children against their father – the sooner you can begin to adopt strategies that do indeed help.
This publication will not only help you to face the truth, but will also arm you with knowledge that will empower you as you strengthen your custody case. Going to court against a narcissist is nothing like a “normal” divorce therefore handling it as you would a “normal” divorce will only be to your disadvantage.
The sooner you have the knowledge that’s behind her actions as well as the tools to adopt that will help you, the better you are in a position to help your children. Sadly, crazy narcissistic mothers spread their hate as quickly as poison ivy often rewarding the children with material possessions or priviledges when they disrespect and mirror the hate she has for their father. And if children remain loyal to the other parent and attempt to be neutral a narcissistic mother will instill a shame based core identity, shaming them, making them feel as if they are inherently “bad” children. The narcissistic mother will also be extremely lenient so that when the kids are with her, life is “fun’ yet when with dad it is full of responsibilities; all of this is done to alienate the father from his children. This is why learning, preparing, and applying what you learn is so vital. Crazy narcissistic mothers will train their children to grow up to be crazy self entitled narcissists that are bound to have nothing but toxic relationships when older. IF you educate yourself, and prepare well – while it is difficult and can be outright exhausting – you may be able to save your children from the horrors of growing up in Crazyville.
And I always encourage you to take a look at the PDF When The Devils The Defendent, which will help you to know how to present your case in a way that will give you credibility in the eyes of the judge. http://payhip.com/b/Kl21
YOU CAN NEVER BE TOO PREPARED!!!
Nobody understands what you're going through more than someone who has been there. I grew up with narcissistic family member and had intimate relationships with malignant narcissists. For the majority of my healing journey, I felt as if I was all alone. I now dedicate my life to being the person for others, that I needed on my own healing journey, so that YOU never feel alone.